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THIS MAN HAD SOUL N PASSION FOR HIS WORK & THE WORLD.
A QUOTE I BELIEVE HE LIVED; NOT "LITERALLY" BUT IN A SENSE... "I am a poor man and of little worth, who is laboring in that art that God has given me in order to extend my life as long as possible" Michelangelo
HE WILL B MISSED & NEVER 4GOTTEN!
SUNSET: 6/25/09
THIS IS UNBELIEVABLE... I'VE LOVED HIM SINCE I WAS A KID... EVEN THOUGH LATELY HE SEEMED A LIL' OFF, BUT HEY I SAY ECCENTRIC IS A BETTER WORD BUT ONLY HE n GOD KNOW!!
REGARDLESS, HE'S STILL THE MOST CREATIVE, ORIGINAL N MOST RESPECTED FATHER, BROTHER, SON, ARTIST, CREATOR, HUMANITARIAN.
THE KING OF POP!!!!
REST IN PEACE.
THE NEVER ENDING & SCARY CYCLE OF LIFE.
*BLESSINGS TO THE JACKSON FAMILY... FRIENDS... AND THOSE EFFECTED BY THE LOSS...
Gul I loveded you, Straight up fo'sho. Or I wouldna told dem ova girls not to call me no mo.
I knowed it was true, the first day I seed you. Why you thank I do, the thangs I do?
Remember how I use ta wine and dine you, Schlits Malt Liquor and Bar-Ba-Que. I gave you a bubble baze and fed you grapes. Dey was on sale that week a dolla ninety-eight.
Romanic evenins after dark, Skreet light walks around the block. Like the very first time, you came ova to my crib. And you got all scared, cause that roach was on yo Tims. I was right dare, with a can of spray. To be yo Super Negro, and save the day.
I ain't even pay my light bill, so I can take you to da club..... Don't knock ova dem candles and burn up my rug!
And dat nite we made luv, for a long liddle bit of time. I hope you got yours, cause I sho'nuff got mine.
I woke up early and made you breakfast in bed. Sep fo I ain't have no juice, no grits, and no eggs. Didn't have no cereals and was fresh outta milk, so we had some toast and some potada chips.
I use to rub lotion on yo feets, and massage yo back. I found you some glue, when you lost one of your tracks.
Now what man you knowed, ever loveded you like dis. Gul please just take my name off dat child support list.
There are so many little things WE can do which can be devastating to a relationship it's wonder anyone is ever successful anymore!
Five of the worst mistakes people make [[are 100% avoidable]] Don't let these happen to you; It's all C H O I C E to make It B E T T E R!
This may SEEM long but its REAL..... So, Read Up!!!!!!!!!!!
1) Cheating... promiscuity is the biggest indication of a weak character. If you can't seem to grasp the concept of monogamy and think that sleeping around is a good idea then, you my friend, deserve to be alone. If you think that you won't get caught, trust me, you will. Any normal person would be filled with guilt each and every time they looked into the eyes of the one they just cheated on! Imagine if the situation was reversed. How would you feel? I bet not to great about yourself.
The rule is simple: don't cheat. When you commit to a relationship with someone, everyone else becomes OFF-LIMITS. If you think most women are OK with you getting involved with other women, even if there are no emotions attached, then you are grossly mistaken. If you want to date as many women as possible, move out to Utah and join a hudderite colony, they're always accepting new applicants lol! Honestly, there's no reason you should even want to compromise your partner's trust in you, it's the [foundation] to all successful relationships.
2) Lacking Trust... Ladies are generally said to be to worst at this. It's a well known FACT that women worry all the time. They worry about everything. Your partner needs to feel confident that you're not going to go out and start pursuing others. If you constantly think that they are out cheating, then you need to [look within yourself and make a few changes]. It means you can see yourself doing that you what you think your partner is doing.
Additionally, countless phone calls to check in on your partner, constantly nagging them to find out where he or she has been the instant you see them is exhausting and can really take a toll on a seemingly perfect relationship. If you can't trust your partner, you shouldn't be in that relationship, period!
3) Disregard for your partner's emotions... Some avoid talking about feelings as much as possible. Not giving your partner the emotional support he or she needs is painful and damaging to their self-esteem!!!!!!!!!!
Hellllo... When the one you love has a difficult time seeing how much you DO love him or her, it hurts! Some Women thrive on emotions and some do not. This unavoidable difference can be helped by simply [listening and communicating] with your partner, I mean really listening. Try putting some genuine thought into your response like a human instead of a robot.
4) Allowing fights to take over... Relationships are like roller-coasters, they have their fare share of ups and downs. During the "downs", often times both parties involved in the relationship are unhappy and therefore turmoil transpires....
Every time two people are put together in a harsh and uncomfortable situation for any period of time, a little conflict is inevitable! Luckily it's healthy and perfectly natural. It gets the air cleared and identifies what's making our partners unhappy, and by that you are able to fix it...
When fights escalate into wars, feelings get hurt and relationships start to unravel. Accept that there will be fights, but don't let them get out of hand, excessive conflict and stress ruins a lot of relationships, so don't let yours be one of them. It is also very important to not go to bed angry with each other!!!!!!!
5) Dormant and stale relations... Like all aspects in life, you need to spice up your relationship when it becomes too predictable and monotonous. I know that there are a few people out that who avoid change at all costs, but would it really kill you to do something OUT of the ordinary???
Try things that you've never tried with your partner, but make sure they are up for it. Go to the zoo or the batting cages, maybe even you know the nice lil' fantasy shops they have out there :)
Just use your imagination and I guarantee you'll have a good time. Surprises are also nice, try having a bath drawn for your partner when they come home from a long day at the office. Don't forget what a blessing every second with your partner really is, and help your guy or girl feel that think your life is truly blessed whit them in it!!!!
Lack of spontaneity and creativity bogs relationships down to a halt which will eventually stop.
You know what BS stands for right, lol... Bull S... Yes people or shall I say Adults.
Don't get comfortable in the "Bull s!*"... Imbued with patience, and confidence and a positive motive; recognize, and grasp your aspirations n find peace in that... Go for what ever your heart desires... Learn to RELEASE the "B.S" or it becomes a part of your life's rhythm and you will continue to attract the "BS".
You know "BS" is contagious rite and so are A-holes... Keep them AWAY!! Don't help them make matters worse; It's time for a change of pace n new beginnings. Peace and Blessings are in store.
An Excerpt From: "Become A Better You" (7 Keys to Improving Your Life Every Day)
Consider an oak tree. If you plant it in a pot, its growth will be limited. Once its roots fill that pot, it can grow no further. The problem is not with the tree; it is with the environment. It is stifling growth. Perhaps you have bigger things in your heart than your present environment can facilitate. That's why, at times, God will stir you out of a comfortable situation.
When you go through persecution and rejection, it's not always because somebody has it in for you. Sometimes, that's God's way of directing you into His perfect will. He's trying to get you to stretch to the next level. He knows you're not going to go without a push, so He'll make it uncomfortable for you to stay where you are currently.
The mistake we make at times is getting negative and sour; we focus on what didn't work out. When we do that, we inhibit the opening of new doors. A few years ago, Lakewood Church was trying to buy some property on which we could build a new sanctuary. We had looked for months, and finally had found a wonderful one-hundred-acre tract of land. We were so excited. However, the day we were to close the deal, the people sold the land right out from under us. I was terribly disappointed, and I had to tell myself, "Joel, God has closed this door for a reason. He has something better in store." Sure, I was down, and I admit that I was discouraged, but I had to shake that off and say, "No, I'm not settling here. I'm going to keep pressing forward."
A few months later, we found another nice piece of property. It would have worked as well, but a similar series of events transpired and the owner refused to sell it to us. Another disappointment. I didn't understand it, but I said, "God, I'm trusting you. I know your ways are not my ways. This doesn't seem right. It doesn't seem fair. But I'm going to stay in an attitude of faith and keep expecting good things." Not long after that, the door to the Compaq Center, a sixteen-thousand-seat sports arena, opened up in downtown Houston, right in the middle of one of the busiest sections of the city. Then it became clear why God had closed the other doors. Had we purchased either of those properties, those choices might have kept us from God's best.
Throughout life, we're not always going to understand everything that happens along the way. But we've got to learn to trust God. We've got to believe that He has us in the palm of His hand, that He is leading and guiding us, that He always has our best interests at heart. I know people who have experienced rejection in their personal relationships. Maybe their marriage didn't work out. They put all those years into it and now they're hurt, dejected, going around defeated and not expecting anything good. I don't believe that divorce is God's best. Unfortunately, sometimes it is unavoidable. If you have been through a divorce, understand that God still has another plan for your life. Just because somebody rejected you or walked out of your life and left you hurt, that doesn't mean you should retreat and settle where you are. That rejection did not change what God put on the inside of you. It doesn't mean that you cannot yet be happy.
When one door closes, [if you will keep the right attitude], God will open another door. But you have to do your part and keep pressing forward. Too many people get bitter, they get angry, and they start to blame God. Instead, let that hurt go. You may not understand it, but trust God and move on with your life. Don't look at it as the end. Look at it as a new beginning. Somebody may have rejected you, but you can hold your head up high knowing this:
God accepts you.
God approves you.
And He has something better in store.
Friend, don't die with the treasure still inside you. Keep pressing forward. Keep reaching for new heights. Give birth to what God has placed in your heart. Don't let other people talk you out of your dreams. Listen to what God says about you, not all the negative voices. When you face rejection and disappointment, don't stay there. Know that God has another plan. That closed door simply means God has something better in store. You may not have experienced God's favor in the past, but this is a new day. You have not seen, heard, or imagined the wonderful things God has in store for you. Don't be weighed down by the distractions and disappointments in life; instead, keep stretching to the next level, reaching for your highest potential. If you do that, I can tell you with confidence your best days are in front of you. God is going to show you more of His blessings and favor, and you will become a better you, better than you ever dreamed possible.
R.I.P MICHAEL JACKSON 
Bull S...
